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The Rich Family(富裕家庭)

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By Eddie Ogan from Chicken Soup for the Soul! ]& k5 x4 ?% b3 ]- ?

- l1 U; C- f  K6 lI’ll never forget Easter 1946. I was fourteen, my little sister, Ocy, was twelve and my older sister, Darlene, was sixteen. We lived at home with our mother, and the four of us knew what it was to do without. My dad had died five years before, leaving Mom with no money and seven school-aged kids to raise.
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By 1946, my older sisters were married and my brothers had left home. A month before Easter, the pastor of our church announced that a special holiday offering would be taken to help a poor family. He asked everyone to save and give sacrificially.- \8 Q) n9 E8 G8 E4 b
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When we got home, we talked about what we could do. We decided to buy fifty pounds of potatoes and live on them for a month. This would allow us to save twenty dollars of our grocery money for the offering. Then we thought that if we kept our electric lights turned out as much as possible and didn’t listen to the radio, we’d save money on that month’s electric bill. Darlene got as many house- and yard-cleaning jobs as possible, and both of us baby-sat for everyone we could. For fifteen cents we could buy enough cotton loops to make three potholders to sell for a dollar. We made twenty dollars on potholders. That month was one of the best of our lives.
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' Q+ b; q$ o! P& sEvery day we counted the money to see how much we had saved. At night we’d sit in the dark and talk about how the poor family was going to enjoy having the money the church would give them. We had about eighty people in church, so we figured that whatever amount of money we had to give, the offering would surely be twenty times that much. After all, every Sunday the pastor had reminded everyone to save for the sacrificial offering.  O% M# j" N$ u! X4 y! T9 G

6 p/ c0 g2 T" r4 d' P0 uThe night before Easter, we were so excited we could hardly sleep. We didn’t care that we wouldn’t have new clothes for Easter; we had seventy dollars for the sacrificial offering. We could hardly wait to get to church! On Sunday morning, rain was pouring. We didn’t own an umbrella, and the church was over a mile from our home, but it didn’t seem to matter how wet we got. Darlene had cardboard in her shoes to fill the holes. The cardboard came apart, and her feet got wet.; P+ y/ H( `5 S% ?/ [0 ?

3 \; a: y4 O/ \1 ?6 oBut we sat in church proudly. I heard some teenagers talking about our old dresses. I looked at them in their new clothes, and I felt rich.
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- t, f1 H# N: G+ O$ Q* u% d( tWhen the sacrificial offering was taken, we were sitting in the second row form the front. Mom put in the ten-dollar bill, and each of us kids put in a twenty-dollar bill.% f- [! V9 h6 t

0 j0 K: q/ r! h& bWe sang all the way home from church. At lunch, Mom had a surprise for us. She had bought a dozen eggs, and we had boiled Easter eggs with our fried potatoes! Late that afternoon, the minister drove up in his car. Mom went to the door, talked with him for a moment, and then came back with an envelope in her hand. We asked what it was, but she didn’t say a word. She opened the envelope and out fell a bunch of money. There were three crisp twenty-dollar bills, one ten-dollar bill and seventeen one-dollar bills.
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Mom put the money back in the envelope. We didn’t talk, just sat and stared at the floor. We had gone from feeling like millionaires to feeling poor. We kids had such a happy life that we felt sorry for anyone who didn’t have our Mom and our late Dad for parents and a house full of brothers and sisters and other kids visiting constantly. We thought it was fun to share silverware and see whether we got the spoon or the fork that night. We had two knives that we passed around to whoever needed them. I knew we didn’t have a lot of things that other people had, but I’d never thought we were poor.
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2 K+ H- X% O1 m+ l9 f5 q& G/ I7 H  xThat Easter day I found out we were. The minister had brought us the money for the poor family, so we must be poor, I thought. I didn’t like being poor. I looked at my clothes and worn-out shoes and felt so ashamed -- I didn’t even want to go back to church. Everyone there probably already knew we were poor!
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I thought about school. I was in the ninth grade and at the top of my class of over one hundred students. I wondered if the kids at school knew that we were poor. I decided that I could quit school since I had finished the eighth grade. That was all the law required at that time.2 ]! [1 B8 s0 p- {
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We sat in silence for along time. Then it got dark, and we went to bed. All that week, we girls went to school and came home, and no one talked much. Finally, on Saturday, Mom asked us what we wanted to do with the money. What did poor people do with money? We didn’t know. We’d never know we were poor. We didn’t want to go to church on Sunday, but Mom said we had to. Although it was a sunny day, we didn’t talk on the way. Mom started to sing, but no one joined in, and she sang only one verse.9 [! U0 I! X! P8 [0 `
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At church we had a speaker. He talked about how churches in Africa made buildings out of sun-dried bricks, but they needed money to buy roofs. He said one hundred dollars would put a roof on a church. The minister added, “Can’t we all sacrifice to help these poor people?” We looked at each other and smiled for the first time in a week.; b; }1 M2 x: ?$ W
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Mom reached into her purse and pulled out the envelope. She passed it to Darlene, Darlene gave it to me, and I handed it to Ocy. Ocy put it in the offering.
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When the offering was counted, the minister announced that it was a little over one hundred dollars. The missionary was excited. He hadn’t expected such a large offering form our small church. He said, “You must have some rich people in this church.” Suddenly it struck us! We had given eighty-seven dollars of that “little over one hundred dollars.”( Y5 b$ F# ^; B
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We were the rich family in the church! Hadn’t the missionary said so? From that day on, I’ve never been poor again.
  

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富裕家庭
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我永远忘不了1946年的复活节。那年我14岁,妹妹奥茜12岁,姐姐达琳16岁,我们和妈妈一起艰难地生活着,爸爸5年前去世了,丢下了妈妈和7个待育的我们,没有钱。
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1946年时,姐姐们都结婚成家了,哥哥们也离开了家。复活节前的一个月,我们教堂的牧师说要搞一个特别的假日奉献,帮助一家贫困的家庭。他号召每个人都集攒一点钱来作奉献。- s) @+ t& X/ U+ ^6 b
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回家后我们讨论起我们能做些什么,最后决定买50磅土豆作这个月的口粮,这样我们就能省下20美元的生活费来作捐献。尔后我们又想出尽量随手关灯并不听收音机的办法,省下这个月的电费。达琳想办法再多接些替别人打扫屋子和院落的活,我们俩琢磨再揽些替别人照看孩子的事。我们花15美分买棉线织出的防烫布垫,能卖1美元。那一个月是我们一生最美好的时光。
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6 E  U: T$ k8 D每天我们都在数今天又攒了多少钱。晚上,坐在黑暗的屋子里,我们谈着那家贫困家庭得到教堂的捐赠时会是怎样的欣喜。我们教堂有80多人,我们计算着捐赠总数大概会有多少,总该是80的20倍吧,毕竟,牧师每个星期天都提醒大家为捐赠攒钱呀。. F3 ^) G3 y* {& [5 J

- P+ i2 \6 p- I  p" r, c1 p复活节的前一天晚上,我们兴奋得睡不着觉,我们一点也不在意自己过节没有新衣服穿,我们攒了70美元耶!我们都等不及去教堂了!星期天早晨大雨瓢泼,我们没伞,教堂离我们家有一英里地,可我们不怕淋湿衣衫。达琳用纸板垫在鞋里堵住破洞,纸板很快浸透,她的双脚全湿了。8 h) g. l% k' j" U: y- H
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但我们非常自豪地坐在教堂里。我听到有几个孩子在指指点点说我们穿的旧衣服。看着他们穿着的新衣服,我感觉自己同样非常富有。
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- b4 s3 r" E' c: g捐赠仪式开始时,我们坐在教堂前排的第2排。妈妈放入一张10元纸币,我们每个孩子放入了一张20元的纸币。6 i+ L" s4 ?( _  y
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回家的路上,我们一路高歌,午饭时妈妈还给了我们一个惊喜,她买了鸡蛋,那天中午,除了油炸土豆,我们还吃了复活节煮蛋!下午晚些时分,牧师开车来到我们家,妈妈开门迎的他,回屋时手里拿着一个信封。我们问那是什么,她一声未吭,打开信封,掉出一摞钱来,是3张20美元、1张10美元和17张1美元的纸币。
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( Q! s+ I. c* Z7 U7 v5 d1 y妈妈把钱放回信封,我们突然一下无语了,静坐着盯着地板,刚刚还觉得自己百万富翁似的,突然间感到自己原来一贫如洗。我们原本如此幸福,我们同情那个没有一个像我们这样的妈妈和去世的爸爸、没有我们这样一个充满兄弟姐妹的家庭的那个孩子。那晚吃饭,我们会分着享用我们家仅有的那套银餐具,看谁会拿到勺、谁会拿到叉,两把刀得大家合用,谁需要就传给谁。我们本觉得这非常有趣,我知道很多别人有的东西我们没有,但我从未感觉自己贫困。
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) X' J9 e7 w( {( Q% [可是,这个复活节让我感到了。牧师给我们送来了捐赠给那个贫困家庭的钱,那我们一定很贫困了。我不喜欢做贫穷家庭!看着自己破旧的衣服和的鞋子,我突然有一种羞愧感,我再也不想去教堂了!
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; G- {- p# v& |. L( n2 S/ u" z) J2 N我突然想到学校。我已上9年级,是100个学生中最拔尖的学生。我不知道学校的同学是否知道我们贫困,我决定退学,既然我已习完8年课程,法律要求读完8年就可以了。+ z# h; t" J# ^7 s( s

6 k  h6 x  A% C我们默默坐了很长时间,后来,天黑了,我们上床睡觉。那一个星期,我们虽然还照常上学、回家,可大家都不怎么说话。到了星期六,妈妈问我们怎么处置这些钱。穷人会怎么处置?我们不知道。我们从未觉得自己贫穷。星期天,我们不想去教堂了,可妈妈说一定得去。那天虽然阳光灿烂,可我们一路无语。妈妈开始唱歌,可没人和着她一起唱,她只唱了一段就惺惺然停下来了。1 y1 L2 P8 n0 D+ @  B1 J
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这个星期天教堂里新来了个演说者,说起非洲的一些教堂,是用日头天然晒干的砖头砌成的,现在他们需要一些钱来盖屋顶,他说100美元就能为一个教堂盖屋顶。牧师接着补充说,“我们大家能为他们作些捐献吗?”我们全家相互对视,会意地笑了,这是这一周以来我们第一次露出的笑脸。3 T- l) z2 A7 `  G  c

0 m5 b7 S3 E9 ]8 W3 d/ B: O妈妈取出钱包,拿出信封递给达琳,达琳传给我,我交给奥茜,奥茜将它放入了捐赠箱。
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数完所有捐赠以后,牧师宣布说,总共100美元多一点。牧师很激动,他没料到我们这么一个小教堂会有那么大数目的捐赠。“你们这个教堂一定有些很富裕的人。”顿时,我们被打动了!在那“100美元多一点”中,有我们的87美元呀。
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我们是这个教堂里富裕的家庭!牧师不是这么说的吗?从那天起,我不再贫穷!
  

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我也希望自己能成为精神富裕的人!
  

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